Why you chose your family .... 21 December 2010


Hello everyone

As 2010 draws to a close we've been taking time to reflect on our journey over the last 12 months. As for so many of us, each year is filled with highs and lows, moments of great joy and also frustration, new friendships and the resolving of old ones and, most importantly at each step, a clearer and stronger connection to the expansive essence that exists inside us all.

And for many, the holiday season...whether you're celebrating Christmas or Hanukkah or Al-hijrah...can be challenging when we spend time with our familiies! So it seemed like a good time to share a longer quote from DZAR about the role our familiy plays in our spiritual life. This is just an excerpt from the full chapter in the book about family and relationships which includes a powerful process for understanding  and working with the true purpose of your family.

 Our final event for the year is in Singapore on Wednesday 29 December...you'll find the link with all the details in the box on the left.

We wish you all great joy at this time in all you do and in all that you be and look forward to sharing the adventure of 2011 with you next year.

Love 

Messages from Your SoulMary & Gary 

Message from DZAR...

Why you have chosen your family

"You choose your family in each existence because of the frequency of that group. You choose them based on your past existences, based on what you have understood and not understood and what you are choosing to learn and release in this existence. You do not choose them based on the identities of the Beings within that family. When you are back with us between your existences, you choose to be born into a family frequency that will give you the opportunity to create the changes you wish for.

"It has been misunderstood that you go through many lifetimes with the same Beings, that you were once the mother, the brother and the lover of the same person. This is not the way it happens, for you are not working things out in your existence through the identity or human personality of another Being. You do not follow a person, as you call them, through many existences so that you can be many different expressions towards them. 

"Energetically you will see similarities and connections with your family and in your relationships, but they exist at the Energetic level and not at the level of the individual. It is because you all connect so deeply to the limited expression of your physical identity that you assume you must move through time together because of your closeness in this existence.   

"So you choose your family based on the match of your frequency and theirs, not because of the individuals that exist within it. When you see it in the form of layers of existence, of frequencies of expression rather than individual Energies being reunited, you will understand that you choose your parents because their Energy resonates with where you are as you begin in the existence, not because you had a previous existence with them or because there is unfinished business to be resolved. 

"The only unfinished business you have to resolve, if you wish to think of it in that way, is with your own Self. It is never with anyone else. So there are no karmic contracts, or soul agreements that you have made that you need to work out in this or any other existence with anyone except your own essence."

 DZAR, from the chapter Family & Relationships

One Message, Many Messengers

 

The only journey is the journey within. 

Rainer Maria Rilke 

Love nothing but that which comes to you woven in the pattern of your destiny. For what could more aptly fit your needs? 

Marcus Aurelius 

Destiny is not a matter of chance; but a matter of choice. 

William Jennings Bryan


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